Posts Tagged ‘Breastfeeding’

I insist, in a home the roles between a men and a women must be equal… Both can take care of their new born for example.

I was happy when my cousin told me that at first her husband gig, used to give the bath to the little girl, and more happy when I see dads playing with their kids in Jungle land… ( exception rare, mais existe).

The myth of the Lebanese boy, who usually lives with his parents, and under the spell of his mom, ironing his shirts, till 35 year or more, must change, this Lebanese boy, will one day be a dad, and He HAS to Participate and Be IN CHARGE, of the well being of his children, or new born… the Dad who only helps is for me a parent who is not doing his full job :-))

The same for the new mom who waits for her “hameto” or her “mom” or “gouvernante” or Domestic worker to iron, feed, sterilize, wash, give bath, change diapers….

euno… don’t you think that we can cuddle the so long waited new born by ourselves???

bref, as I am a pure Lebanese Women, and girl, who lived with her parents taking her in charge till 29 years old, I do not know how to take care of a baby, or a new born.

So when I new I was pregnant, I decided to prepare my self to the new job I will have to deal with, taking care with love of the new born.

I needed to learn how to Breastfeed, How to change Diapers, how to sterilize bottles, how to give a bath, how to massage the new born, how to cut the nails, and how to clean the face….

yes yes yes… all those are tasks, we as new parents have to learn, quickly!! if we want to succeed and have time to play, cuddle, love the new born 🙂

so, My Husband and I, searched the internet for good learning tips , and we would love to share them with all pregnant women, and future daddy to be!!!

for you some very interesting short videos: Some are in French other in English:

1- how to clean the face of a new born / comment nettoyer le visage du nouveau ne : video in French http://www.aufeminin.com/bebe/video-soin-visage-bebe-n58255.html  or this http://www.aufeminin.com/video-maman-bebe/toilette-bebe-n77363.html

2- How to clean the ombilical cord of a new born / comment nettoyer le cordon du nouveau ne: video in French http://www.aufeminin.com/bebe/video-soin-du-cordon-n58254.html

3- How to change baby diapers/ comment changer la couche de bebe : video in French http://www.aufeminin.com/bebe/changer-couche-nouveau-ne-n58983.html

4- How to give a bath to a new born/ Le bain du nourisson: video In French http://www.aufeminin.com/bebe/video-bain-de-bebe-n58251.html

Page in English http://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/bathing-skin-care/Pages/Bathing-Your-Newborn.aspx

video in English how to prepare and bath a baby http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-RnxD-KRkw8 or this good movie too  in English http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5k3SLNVccoo

5-How to place the new born to sleep/ comment coucher bebe video in French http://www.aufeminin.com/video-maman-bebe/video-coucher-bebe-n59189.html

et comment echapper a la mort du nourrison ou le SIDS video en anglais http://www.babycenter.com/2_how-to-reduce-your-babys-risk-of-sids_10360426.bc#videoplaylist

6- How to cut the nails of a new born / comment couper les onlges de bebe : video in French http://www.aufeminin.com/video-maman-bebe/couper-ongle-bebe-n84642.html

video In English how to trim nails of baby http://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/bathing-skin-care/Pages/Trimming-Babys-Nails.aspx

7- Femme enceinte en voiture que faire / Pregnancy and car travel: video in English http://video.about.com/pregnancy/Pregnancy-and-Car-travel.htm

8- checkliste pour bien allaiter/ Breastfeeding checklist page in English : http://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/breastfeeding/Pages/A-Breastfeeding-Checklist-Are-You-Nursing-Correctly.aspx

9- Que preparer avant d’aller a la maternite? what to prepare in your bag before going to deliver? video in English:  http://video.about.com/pregnancy/How-to-Pack-a-Maternity-Bag.htm

10- Comment soigner la peau de bebe/ Baby Skin basics video in English: http://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/bathing-skin-care/Pages/Baby-Skin-Basics.aspx?nfstatus=401&nftoken=00000000-0000-0000-0000-000000000000&nfstatusdescription=ERROR:+No+local+token&nfstatus=401&nftoken=00000000-0000-0000-0000-000000000000&nfstatusdescription=ERROR:+No+local+token

11- Les taches sur bebe / Baby skin condition and what appears video in English: http://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/bathing-skin-care/Pages/Baby-Skin-Conditions.aspx

12- Comment prendre soin du penis du bebe/ how to care for an Uncircumcised penis:   page in englishhttp://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/bathing-skin-care/Pages/Care-for-an-Uncircumcised-Penis.aspx

13- Comment calmer les pieds d’une femme enceinte/ how to calm swollen feet during pregnancy . Video in English http://video.about.com/pregnancy/Swollen-Feet-and-Pregnancy.htm

14- Les meilleures positions pour bien allaiter / How to breastfeed easily video in English http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Bs0X_O8ZhM or http://www.babycenter.com/2_10-tips-for-breastfeeding-success_10326780.bc

15- Des lectures en francais sur l’allaitement:




16- Un guide produit par L’UNICEF concernant la premiere tetee: video en anglais: http://www.unicef.org.uk/BabyFriendly/Parents/Resources/AudioVideo/Positioning-and-attachment/

17- Comment enrober bebe/ How to swaddle the new born http://www.babycenter.com/2_how-to-swaddle-a-baby_10347122.bc

I hope that those links and videos are interesting and will help each expecting mom and dad!!

Rita Chemaly

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Breastfeeding in Lebanon is not usually very well marketed. Why? In your nurseries, in the waiting room of your gynecologist, in the hospital, in the pharmacies, on Radio Stations, on TV,  Big boards and ads are here to market Formula milk or baby formula. what does it mean? the milk that is not natural and bottled.

I hear my friends and cousins when having a baby talk about feeding them with cerelac, bledina, nun, and other…. those may be good, but  the importance of Breastfeeding the new-born till at least 6 months has been recognised everywhere. and in Lebanon to protect breastfeeding , a law was passed in 2008 ( bravo our dear law makers, you did it!!) but it is not yet Implemented successfully :

the law 47/2008 stipulates “Organizing the Marketing of Baby and Young Child Feeding Products and Tools”, …  bans all marketing of formula milk, bottles, teats and pacifiers because they all embody an obstacle for the successful establishment and continuation of breastfeeding for a minimum of 6 months and preferably for up to 2 years (together with complementary foods).”

a Petition was prepared by some activists in Facebook The Lebanese Ministry of Public Health: Stop formula milk companies from marketing their products illegally!

more over the groups created on Facebook help “mother to be”  in Lebanon share their experience, ask questions and have the community comment and reply! Many answers are truly important to read!!

below are the 2 Facebook groups where mum’s and expecting moms are active :




I am with Breastfeeding because it is good for the mother and the child,

but in Lebanon, the short maternity leave that is just for 49 days (including weekends), makes it hard for women to keep up feeding their children.

I hope that Maternity leave law be amended for at least 12 weeks as recommended by ILO, and I hope that nurseries and places for breastfeeding can be established at work places with a minimum quota of female employee….

Rita Chemaly

to know more about this issue, here is the article that was published today by the Daily Star.

Baby formula pushers draw parents’ ire

BEIRUT: It took four attempts before Sarah Boudiab  found a pediatrician who didn’t  pressure her to introduce infant milk-replacement formula into her baby’s diet.  Since her child was 5 or 6 months old, in offices often decorated with  advertisements for formula, doctors variously expressed surprise that Boudiab  continued to breastfeed and beseeched her to introduce formula feeding.

“Breastfeeding past one year is only in underdeveloped countries,” she said  one pediatrician told her, while another, using a growth chart she knew to be  outdated, warned her: “Your baby isn’t growing well enough.”

“You get scared [when you hear such things],” Boudiab told The Daily Star,  noting that a mother less well-informed, less determined or with a less  supportive spouse may have succumbed to the pressure to switch to bottle  feeding. One pediatrician even recommended a particular brand of milk  replacement to Boudiab.

“You feel like pediatricians are not doctors – they are more like marketing  agents,” she said.

Although international health experts have long since resolved that in the  majority of cases breastfeeding is preferable to bottle feeding, rates of the  former remain low in Lebanon.

According to the most recent World Bank data available, only 15 percent of  Lebanese babies are exclusively breastfed between birth and the age of 6 months  old.

The reasons for this are manifold. A 2011 study by Mona Nabulsi, a  pediatrician at the American University of Beirut’s Medical Center, identified  lack of awareness about breastfeeding and little preparation for it as  contributory factors.

However, parents like Boudiab believe that the active and widespread  promotion of milk replacement formulas plays a significant role too.

In addition to traditional advertising methods, allegations abound that  formula companies enter into deals with medical professionals and institutions  to secure promotion for their products.

Iman El-Zein, a member of the Lebanese Association  for Early Childhood  Development, told The Daily Star  that among such arrangements is  the contribution of equipment to hospitals in exchange for the distribution of  milk samples upon the discharge of new mothers.

The distribution of formula samples upon discharge undermines new moms’  confidence in breastfeeding, she said.

Linda Shaker Berbari, a mother of two, echoes this, saying such promotions  and practices often lead mothers to believe that by feeding formula they are  choosing the “better option.”

When her children were born, one of the first things she was given was a  packet including formula samples, Berbari said.

“Had I not been aware of the dangers of formula, I wouldn’t have known it was  important for me to say ‘no,’” she added.

Some of the risks associated with formula milk for babies include: obesity,  asthma, allergies, lower IQ and cognitive development, respiratory infections  and diabetes.

Aware of the pros and cons of formula or not, what many are completely  oblivious to is that that since 2008 it has been clearly prohibited under  Lebanese law to market or promote infant or follow-up milk replacement products,  as well as things required for their administration – bottles, teat, etc. – for  children aged up to 36 months.

It is this comprehensive piece of legislation, Law 47/2008 – which even  stipulates how the products are labeled – that parents behind an Internet  campaign launched in May are trying to to get implemented.

The movement began when regular Light FM listener and new mom Sara Luis Hanna  was irked that a competition on  one of the station’s shows was introduced as sponsored by Apta Junior, an infant  formula produced by Danone.

“It was like a stab in the back by Light FM,” Hanna, who had recently become  aware of the legislation governing formula promotion and advertising, told The  Daily Star.

Already an attendee of pro-breastfeeding La Leche League’s meetings and  active on online mom forums, she decided to highlight the issue by founding her  own Facebook  group.

“Stop formula companies from marketing their products in Lebanon” has  attracted more than 300 members on Facebook since May and claims a number of  victories for its cause, including Light FM’s cancelation of its contract with  Danone.

Almost daily, the group’s members use the forum to highlight violations of  Law 47/2008 – from magazine adverts, to billboards, to formula companies’ logos  adorning waiting rooms.

They have also established a breastfeeding blog to raise awareness about the  legislation and the risks of formula feeding, and have launched a petition to  pressure the Lebanese government and the Health Ministry  to implement the law.

The group also credits itself with the calling off of a nutrition workshop  for moms organized in conjunction with the formula company Novalac.

While Danone  did not respond to an email from The Daily  Star querying its promotional activities for Apta Junior, Novalac’s  communication department promptly replied when contacted.

“Novalac was planning to make a workshop with a dietitian addressed to  mothers regarding babies’ nutrition,” the email said, but the event “was not  focused on milk in any way.”

Novalac explained that it canceled the workshop “to be able to clarify the  issue with [the Health Ministry] in order to get their approval to avoid any  further inconveniences.”

“We will never reconsider the workshop unless we have [the ministry’s]  approval,” the company said.

The Facebook campaigners have also been in communication with the Health  Ministry, exchanging emails with its Director-General Walid Ammar. He told the  activists a meeting had taken place with the formula producers and assured them  he was working to strictly implement the law.

But while Hanna said the response from the ministry thus far had been “good,”  she cautioned that she remained “a little skeptical.”

“We’ll see how far we have come in a couple of months or years,” she  said.

Zein, who contributed to the drafting of the law, is even more reserved in  her hopes for its implementation.

One of the causes of the widespread violation of the law is “the political  situation and the weakness of the Health Ministry,” she said, noting that with  its current caretaker status the government is unlikely to be particularly  active on the issue.

Zein also pointed out that the ministry had not yet set punishments for  violators of the law, and was “postponing and disregarding meetings of the  [National] committee [for the promotion and protection of breastfeeding]” the  formation of which is provided for by the law in question.

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A  version of this article appeared in the print edition of The Daily Star on June  26, 2013, on page 4.
Source:  http://www.dailystar.com.lb/News/Local-News/2013/Jun-26/221595-baby-formula-pushers-draw-parents-ire.ashx#ixzz2XPklrSwj


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